Friday, April 1, 2011
What Do You Wish You’d Cared *More* About?
Not long ago, the beautiful Twisties this pressing question posed: What if I do not care? As in, so if you do not care about the wedding cake or find the perfect wedding dress or reception centers, table linens or for real? Of course the answer is that your wedding will not be ruined just because they do not spend ages hunting for a dress or have paper towels on the brunch buffet after the ceremony. My advice is always going to be "If you do not care about it, do not do / don 't stress on him or let someone else handle it." That's good advice, if I may say so myself!
The only problem? From time to time a bride comes out the other side of your wedding and discovers that she is concerned or should be careful about certain details. There are definitely things I did not mind, while planning a wedding that I can now say that I wish would have mattered, since these are the things that cause even small pains at times I get to see my photo album of wedding. And I'd love to know, for those of you already married, what would you like it mattered most, while planning a wedding. Maybe you did not pay much attention in its field and stands as an afterthought in your photos. Or your wedding cake was only so-so, but wished it had been fabulous. Could it be that we feel that no more of its budget devoted to wedding photography or wedding rings.
In the absence of a time machine, there is little that married women can do now ... other than to suggest that brides-to-be and grooms-to-be to take our stories into account when planning your wedding. It sounds and feels a bit silly, but makes little sense to create a list of things you and your intended are not interested and after meditating on it for a while. Try to imagine the wedding pictures the future - do the things you think they do not care about making an appearance after all? You may be surprised to discover that some things that "do not enter treatment 'is suddenly more important! Or maybe you really do not care and certainly can devote to things that are really important to you. Either way, you just increased your chances of having the wedding you really want.
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